LIFE, PEOPLE AND EFFECTIVENESS

      LIFE AND EFFECTIVENESS

   I've come to realise with  a pinch of salt that life becomes valuable to people who are dying and most at times, we don't realise how good God has been to us until we compromise the goodness of God in our lives and we often  put a lot of energy in asking God to keep something alive that needs to die. A lot of us pray to get something that we don't know what it is, what it looks like, and so when we don't know what it is, what it looks like, we don't know when we've got it and if we don't know when we've got it, we sure don't know when we lose it. You have to know what I am talking about to know what I'm talking about.

         On the other hand, I've noticed that some people will despise you because you're effective and some too will fight you over what somebody said about you (be it true or false) through conversations to which you were not privy. I've also come to terms that if you want to be effective, you have to be aware of your competition. Women don't dress for men, they dress to compete other women because they want to be the centre of attention and attraction. THIS IS JUST BY THE WAY. Also, God has given each and everyone what they need for what they do so there is nothing or no reason why we have got to be envious of others.

   

Furthermore, a bitter fact which needs to be faced is that some people are so insecure that they cannot compliment anybody else because they feel like you doing well is taking something from them.