PRAISE

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Hey, hey loves, trust everyone is well? Recently I had a pleasure of talking to a friend and we had such an interesting and yet somewhat complicated conversation.

To him he wants a woman who will cook for him since he does not know how to cook. Myself on the other hand, want a man who will cook for me when he can or will employ a chef for me. Not saying I don't know how to cook but I'd prefer to clean than to cook. This friend on the other hand, had every problem why I won't cook for my boyfriend, fiance or husband. He was of the notion  that if I used to cook for the guys I used to date or talked to, they won't have left and if I was doing everything right, they won't have upped and gone. He didn't seem to want to accept the fact that you can be doing everything right in a relationship and your partner will still fall out of love, get tired of the relationship due to a number of factors and walk out the door. 

I drew to his attention the fact that even though my relationships may not have lasted long, I was still receiving the princess treatment and what he asked was; if I was getting princess treatment, where are they now and they left me because I refused to cook for them. Interesting mindset, isn't it? LOOOL. That to me seemed like a personal attack so I just retorted by saying that "don't let your poverty speak, find you someone with similar ideologies and thrive together but me I'm for a man who'll cook or get me a chef and wouldn't expect me to cook. Not to say I won't cook but  don't force me to do things when you are doing the bare minimum.

Let's all think about this, if a person is being treated right, submission or doing things for you comes naturally, right? He was also of the notion that because I didn't use to say the words "I LOVE YOU" to my partners they left me and they left because I gave them every reason to and if I had spiced things up, they will still be around. Hilarious, right?

Guys, guys, I will need your take on this. If I was wrong, let me know.