We know love is a variety of different emotional and mental states; typically strongly and positively experienced that ranges from deepest interpersonal affection to simple pleasure. Most commonly, love refers to an emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment. It can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion and affection; that is the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another. With this definition, I can say I have LOVED before and I still do. You never just meet people without them serving any purpose in your life even if they are bitter experiences and you must be thankful because every situation makes you a better and stronger person even if you don't realise it.
You know when you meet someone and you just have this instant connection? Nothing feels forced? Yea, that. Doesn't it just feel so amazing to vibe with someone who understands you, never tries to change who you are, advises you and makes you feel comfortable in his/her presence and you can open up to each other anything?
I met a person who fits the above description and who has been a blessing to me even though he may not realise it. He made me a better person. He was and is still an amazing person, someone who made me feel more confident and comfortable about myself than I've ever been. He understood my every need and worries, was a brother, a friend and partner-in-crime. He opened the path for me to believe there are still good people out there if you ever looked hard enough, but nothing is ever rosy, just as a rose is surrounded by thorns, same way a person with good character has flaws too.
When you love a person, you just don't love some parts of them and dislike some parts too. What I want to say is, you don't just love a person's potential but you love every part of them and accept them as they are but that is no reason to pardon someone with an extremely terrible behavior. Love always hopes, trusts and perseveres. It is also not self seeking, not easily angered and keeps no record of wrongs. Love makes wants you to do better, but when love is hurting you more than helping you both, you got to let it go.
You know when you meet someone and you just have this instant connection? Nothing feels forced? Yea, that. Doesn't it just feel so amazing to vibe with someone who understands you, never tries to change who you are, advises you and makes you feel comfortable in his/her presence and you can open up to each other anything?
I met a person who fits the above description and who has been a blessing to me even though he may not realise it. He made me a better person. He was and is still an amazing person, someone who made me feel more confident and comfortable about myself than I've ever been. He understood my every need and worries, was a brother, a friend and partner-in-crime. He opened the path for me to believe there are still good people out there if you ever looked hard enough, but nothing is ever rosy, just as a rose is surrounded by thorns, same way a person with good character has flaws too.
When you love a person, you just don't love some parts of them and dislike some parts too. What I want to say is, you don't just love a person's potential but you love every part of them and accept them as they are but that is no reason to pardon someone with an extremely terrible behavior. Love always hopes, trusts and perseveres. It is also not self seeking, not easily angered and keeps no record of wrongs. Love makes wants you to do better, but when love is hurting you more than helping you both, you got to let it go.
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