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WHAT ARE YOUR VIEWS?

Recently I've had lots of chats with friends on how to know when someone is just not into you, when to back off when something is not mutual or how not to let people walk all over you and truth be told, they really came up with a lot of ideologies some of which were extremely funny but really made a lot of sense if you ponder over it.

My question was, someone shows signs that they care about you and you get along really well, great chemistry, great friendships and along the line, things get sexual and like two consenting adults, you agree, get it over and done with, they start showing signs of withdrawal, what will you do or how will you go about it? Will you consider the lady easy just because she gave in her all and liked the guy? Some said guys usually like it when a girl is really firm about her feelings and doesn't give in easily, the guy considers her very respectable and won't tend to disrespect her, others also had the view that, if a boy and girl like each other or if the girl likes the guy , it doesn't matter how easily or how long it takes to open up to the guy. After all. what will be will be, right?

Others also had the notion that  it all depends on who you open up to; so for a girl being cheap kinda talk does not really hold. All these points I agree with.  What beats my mind is why will a party lead you on with the impression that they are into you and just when you start developing feelings, they back off saying they are doing so because you are having feelings for them, how will you take that on if it happened to you?

Also, I wanted to know how many people will settle for someone who is very gullible in the sense of making wrong decisions/choices   when it comes to matters regarding the opposite sex but will make a great life partner and has an unpleasant past?  What of a great partner who has a very bad temper but a wonderful personality? 

THOUGHTS AND VIEWS PLEASE..